Couples are made up of individuals who were found by other people. Singles are people who may or may not have been found by other people and may or may not have yet found themselves. But if you're single and you're lucky, you've found yourself. If you're a part of a couple, you better hope that the other person likes what they find - or you better find yourself so it's easier being single. If you're part of a good couple, you might be lucky enough to find out more about yourself. If you're single, doubly so.

And, in case some of you are wondering, the trouble with finding one's self isn't the actual 'finding'. It's figuring out what comes next. And most people, in fear of figuring out what comes next, keep trying to find themselves in the hope that they'll find something that they like better than what they have found.

And then there are the people who desperately want someone to find them despite their inability to find or recognize themselves when they find themselves. They are so numerous they aren't even worth writing about.